This is another one of those stories that seems to last forever. Perhaps that happens becuase of the important message. You don't have to agree with it. And you may be tempted to pound some nails You can still be considered a friend.
Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence.
(Most importantly the last sentence)
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same.
When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. " A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed.
They lend an ear, they share words of praise
and they always want to open their hearts to us."
YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I AM HONORED!
Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole.
3 comments:
Beautiful post, Jack.
And all those beautiful words backacha!
No nail holes here Jack. Clever man!
Thanks for the inclusion.
Regards
sage jack,
i read this once years back and it involved a dwarf and a basketball player. not sure if the meaning was as impactful, but the ending was the same... hmmm. wait a second... nevermind. my bad. musta been a different story with the hoop and all...
anyway, i sure coulda used your sage advise about 4 weeks into my rennovation project. a couple of times i got a lil' pissy with my hammer and jes MAY have punched a few holes in the walls out of frustration.
fortunately, wall spackle to a fixer-upper is like duck-tape and windex was to MacGuyver...
good one tho.
much more meaningful than the hoop version.
giggle
;)
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